Hugscotch

This is an image of a local beach, with the edge of the ocean at the top of the frame. Drawn in the sand is a large circle with hopsquatch squares leading away on both sides. Inside the circle are the words "HUG HERE".Hi Folks:

Hugscotch is a game best played by two, but if you’re on your own, feel free to start on one end, hug yourself in the middle and then hop off to the other end. If you don’t have a hugscotch on the beach where you happen to find yourself, feel free to create your own! One can also be made using sidewalk chalk, or use your own imagination!

Hugs,
M&M

P.S. Alternately, one may choose to create something completely different:

This image shows a local beach, with the ocean at the top of the frame. Drawn in the sand is a large circle, with a six-petal flower inside of it. Outside the circle reads, "Prime Hugging Spot".

Written in the Sand

This is a hug circle written in the sand at Stan's Beach, Victoria, BC. At the top of the image is a circle about 6'/2m in diameter. Underneath that it reads, "SHARE HUGS HERE"Hi Folks: Mobility issues kept us both away from the shore last year (and it’s only 200m away) but Mike has been able to get there three times this year. This was left during the last visit… and we had our first customers within five minutes! Of course, by the next day the tide had washed it away, but that’s okay too. A part of the appeal for us is that unless we’re actually standing there we don’t see who partakes in our offer of a hugging space, but we’re pleased with the idea that some do. They carry those memories forward.

Hug someone you love today. Or a stranger. Or, preferably, both!

Hugs,
M&M

The Reindeer Take Victoria…

…because Manhattan is too far away…

Hi Folks:

As Christmas is nearly upon us once again, Twinkles and Krinkles knew it was time to make their annual sojourn downtown. They’ve been doing this pretty much every year since 2015… So many people lose their smiles this time of year, and these two reindeer take it upon themselves to help people remember their smiles by smiling and waving at them. Some people smile and/or wave back and some don’t, but that’s okay. Some smiles are buried deeper than others, but the two reindeer know that memory is a powerful thing and smiles have a way of bubbling up to the surface unexpectedly.

Normally the two work in tandem, but when she heard Mrs. Claus was scheduled at a high-level E.L.F. meeting, Krinkles knew her path lay elsewhere.

Krinkles at the secret E.L.F. meetingMrs. Claus and head E.L.F. at a secret meeting locationThis left Twinkles to his own devices, but he didn’t mind too much. Together or apart, they take their role of having fun very seriously. Wandering through the Bay Centre and the streets of downtown Victoria, Twinkles made sure to engage as many people as possible.

Twinkles at the base of the Bay Centre Christmas treeOf course, all of that smiling and waving uses up a lot of energy, so at one point Twinkles had to retire to a local shop for a cup of tea and a little bite to eat before heading out again.

Twinkles having a tea and a little bite to eatHer meeting finished, Krinkles and Twinkles and Mrs. Claus were united once again. With big smiles on their faces, they were happy to head home. You’ll notice that this close to Christmas Mrs. Claus was doing her best to travel incognito…like that would ever work. Her glow gives her away every time.

Mrs. Claus, Twinkles and Krinkles on the streets of VictoriaIf you come across someone today who has temporarily lost their smile, be sure to gift them one of yours! Even if they only take that smile and bury it down deep, it will find its way back out when they least expect it!

Hugs
🤶&🎅
(and Krinkles and Twinkles) 
 

P.S. For more of the adventures of Twinkles and Krinkles, click here.

Happy Holidays!!

From our house to yours, we wish you a safe and happy Holiday Season, and a New Year filled with as much love, joy, adventure, peace, excitement and prosperity as you can handle!

Hugs,
M&M

 

 

It’s Our Birthday!!

Hi Folks:

This image was taken from our front doorway. When the door was opened, the front porch was covered in leaves. There's a text overlay that reads, "Can Mike come out to play?"Well, it’s now been 16 (!!) years since our blog took its first breath; it continues to be quite the journey! Our site has been much quieter this year than in the past; medical challenges have prevented us from being in the office as much – but we’re still growing! We currently have 729 blog posts and 151 pages on our site. The posts cover poetry, photography tutorials, our hugging adventures (88 countries and counting!) and Free Hugs chalk art (as well as various other musings); our pages include some of Marcia’s stories, some of Mike’s stories and free Adventures of Rainbow Mouse colouring pages to download and enjoy. We’ve shared some wonderful adventures with you through these and are looking forward to sharing more in the future! This blog is our gift to you, our readers, and we very much appreciate having you here with us. Feel free to drop by any time, check out Marcia’s books, download our colouring pages, read our stories, leave a comment or reach out, relax and enjoy yourself. We don’t have any birthday cake that we can share (this is the best we can do: ), but we send you love.

Remember to hug someone you love today, even if it’s just screen to screen. You’ll both feel better for it! ‍

M&M

P.S. Extra special thanks to our son Nick, who does all of the techie stuff that keeps us afloat!! 🙂

Happy Canada Day!!

This image has a photograph of some chalk art in the centre of it. The photo shows a large circle with a Canada Flag in the middle. At the top of the flag it says, "Happy Canada Day" and below the flag it says, "Share Hugs Here"

Above this photograph is red and white text that again reads "Happy Canada Day!!" and below the image it reads, "Hug Someone You Love Today"Happy Canada Day, folks!! Many thanks for celebrating this day and our beautiful home with us!!

Hugs,
M&M

P.S. A reminder that next Saturday (July 5, 2025) is International Free Hugs Day! Let your hugging inhibitions go and embrace the love!!

 

Happy Father’s Day!!

Hi Folks:

All of Marcia and Mike’s parents are gone now, but we have two sons and a son-in-law and five beautiful grandchildren. We are Grandy and Grandalf! 🧙‍♀️&🧙‍♂️

As with those who are moms, Happy Father’s Day today to all of the strong, loving men who are fathers, to those who are chosen dads, surrogate dads, step-dads, adoptive dads, and to the women who are also dads.

Special thanks to all those who love and support them.

Hugs,
M&MThis is a photograph made at the Victoria Butterfly Gardens. The edges of the frame are surrounded by plants, and there's a rocky stream running vertically down the center. At the top there's a small statue of a stone Buddha sitting in quiet contemplation.

Sixteen Years of Hugging

Hi Folks:

June 8 is a very special day for us, for several reasons. First, for the world in general, June 8 is World Ocean Day. Not only do the world’s oceans cover over 70% of the earth’s surface, but they hold 97% of the world’s water. Keeping our oceans healthy is vital in so many ways it would be impossible to begin to list them all.

Second, June 8 is the Anniversary of Marcia’s marriage proposal. Yes, it was 26 years ago, and after giving it due consideration (for less than half a second), of course Mike said yes. No fool he. We continue to feed each other every day.

And third, June 8, 2010 was the advent of our Free Hugs sessions in downtown Victoria. In 11 years we shared hugs with locals and tens of thousands of visitors to our fair city from (at least) 88 countries. Every hug is unique and special and we treasure each and every one of them. Our only rule was that we offered, but those who were interested had to come to us.

The illustrious Marcia, Free Hugs poster in hand, during our first Free Hugs session

The illustrious Marcia, Free Hugs poster in hand, during our first Free Hugs session (image © A. Licht)

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2025 Hug Zones

Hi Folks:

This is an image of our most recent Free Hugs zone chalk at. In the middle is a large multi-coloured circle, surrounding four octagons in a square pattern with a diamond in the centre. At the top it read Prime and at the bottom it reads Hugging Spot2025 marks the fourth year we’ve been creating Hugging Spots on the sidewalk in front of our house (and occasionally elsewhere). Unfortunately, by the time you see this image the chalk art itself will be long gone. We had an uncharacteristic dry spell last month, long enough to put out our first effort for the year. We’ll see what 2025 brings! To keep all of the patterns for 2025 in one place we’ll add future works to the bottom of this post. If you happen to be walking by our little corner of Victoria feel free to share a hug with those who are accompanying you. If you’re nowhere near us, feel free to create your own Hugging Spot! All it takes is a little chalk, a little time and a little love. Many thanks to the wonderful people who stopped to chat while work was in progress!

If you want to see our previous patterns you can find them here:

2024 Hug Zones
2023 Hug Zones
2022 Hug Zones.

Remember to hug someone you love today, even if it’s you!!
M&M